How well do you really know your partner? This free couples quiz turns that question into a game. One of you answers questions about yourself, the other guesses your answers, and then you swap. It takes about ten minutes, works on one phone, and usually ends with at least one “wait, really?”
How the couples quiz works
- Player 1 answers. Ten or twenty questions about themselves, drawn at random from 60. Player 2 looks away.
- Player 2 guesses. Same questions, this time as guesses about Player 1.
- See the score. Every answer and every guess side by side, with a score out of 10 or 20.
- Swap roles. Now Player 2 answers and Player 1 guesses. At the end you get a combined score you can copy and share.
Nothing is saved or sent anywhere. Refresh the page and it is gone.
Turn the results into a conversation
The score is the least interesting part. The good stuff is in the misses. When your partner guessed wrong, ask about it: “Why did you think I would pick that?” When you guessed wrong, ask for the story behind the real answer.
A few ways to make it a small ritual:
- Play it on date night, then pick the most surprising miss and talk about it over dessert.
- Replay it every few months. People change, and so do their answers. It is a playful way to keep up with each other.
- Go one level deeper afterward with a few deep conversation starters or what if questions for couples.
Knowing each other’s inner world is one of the quiet foundations of a close relationship. Regular curiosity about your partner is part of the Weekly Care layer of your Couple Care Routine. If you prefer a longer, app-based version, the PumPum relationship app has daily couple quizzes built for two.
60 how well do you know your partner questions
Prefer to play out loud, on a road trip or over dinner? Here is every question from the quiz. Take turns asking, and answer before your partner reveals the truth.
Everyday favorites
- What would your partner pick for a free Saturday?
- What is your partner's go-to comfort food?
- How does your partner take their morning drink?
- What kind of movie would your partner choose tonight?
- What is your partner's ideal vacation?
- Which season does your partner love most?
- What does your partner order at a new restaurant?
- What is your partner's favorite way to spend a rainy evening?
- What snack would your partner grab first?
- What would your partner play on a road trip?
- Is your partner a morning person or a night owl?
- What is your partner's favorite kind of dessert?
- Where would your partner rather live?
- What does your partner do first after getting home?
- Which pet would your partner choose?
Habits and quirks
- How does your partner handle being hungry?
- What does your partner do when they are stressed?
- How does your partner pack for a trip?
- What is your partner's texting style?
- How does your partner fall asleep best?
- How does your partner act when they are sick?
- What is your partner most likely to be late for?
- What would your partner spend a little extra money on?
- Which chore does your partner dislike most?
- How does your partner like to celebrate their birthday?
- How does your partner handle a disagreement?
- What would your partner do with an unexpected day off?
- What does your partner check first in the morning?
- How tidy is your partner, honestly?
- What does your partner do on a long flight or train ride?
Love and us
- What makes your partner feel most loved?
- Which small gesture would your partner love most?
- What was your partner's first impression of you?
- What would your partner call a perfect date?
- How does your partner like to be comforted after a bad day?
- Which kind of memory of the two of you is your partner's favorite?
- What does your partner think the two of you argue about most?
- What would your partner most like to do more of together?
- How does your partner prefer to say sorry?
- What would your partner want for an anniversary?
- When does your partner feel closest to you?
- Which pet name would your partner pick for you?
- What does your partner love most about your home together?
- How would your partner describe the two of you in one word?
- What would your partner plan for a surprise weekend?
Dreams and inner world
- What is your partner's dream job, if money did not matter?
- Which superpower would your partner choose?
- What is your partner most afraid of?
- What would your partner do with a big lottery win?
- Which skill would your partner love to master?
- What does your partner worry about most right now?
- What is your partner proudest of?
- Where does your partner see the two of you in ten years?
- What would your partner change about their daily life?
- Which time period would your partner visit?
- What recharges your partner most?
- What would your partner rather be known for?
- What small thing makes your partner's day?
- What would your partner bring to a desert island?
- How does your partner want to spend old age?
More ways to learn about each other
- Take the Relationship Check-Up to see which part of your relationship could use a little care right now.
- Try never have I ever for couples for stories you have not heard yet.
- Use these relationship check-in questions to keep up with each other every week.
Common questions
How does the couples quiz work?
One of you answers 10 or 20 questions about yourself while the other looks away. Then the other player guesses. You see both answers side by side, then swap roles.
What is a good score?
Anything above half is a good score. A low score is not a bad sign, it just means there is more to discover. The misses are usually where the best conversations start.
Is it free, and is anything saved?
Yes, it is free and there is no sign-up. Nothing you answer is saved or sent anywhere.